Thank you for the response,

I have found my files finally, I think the kids had my mind in to many diffrent places.

Now im trying to figure out 2 things

1.Can I use my external drive to make a back up of my my files? My drive is NTFS
2.I still cant find my system32 folder..... I'm looking in the right drive now im sure, I'm looking for the one that should be in the WINDOWS folder, does this program move it or something I know that if i can just replace a couple of files my computer will boot up normally.

Any suggestions?