it is very easy to remaster the cd to do what you want. My own remaster has 98% of what you listed and works wonderful.
once you have screwed up a few times, like I did. You will learn some of the files you can get rid of to make space for what you want. kde-i18n-*, gettext, latex, koffice sould be enough. I myself made more than enough space for gnome and xfce4, etc..
look for some "unofficial" repositories @ www.apt-get.org for mplayer (and w32codecs), acroread
as for evolution, gftp, etc.. apt-get them

I wish you all the luck, hope it works
freeballer