After trying everything on the net i can across this on the net.

To install nvidia-kernel with out having to recompile anything you need
the kernel-source deb for your running kernel
symlink it to /usr/src/linux
copy /boot/config-<your running kernel> to /usr/src/linux/.config
cd /usr/src
tar zxvf the nvidia-kernel-src tar.gz
cd /usr/src/linux
make-kpkg modules_image
cd ..
dpkg -i nvidia-kernel-<blah>.deb

This really works.

After this install yanc-0.2.0.tar.gz
to tweak your card (is a must).

Thank for all other replay's on my Q's