First off thanks for the quick reply!

I had discovered the /boot dir on the CDR and that is were all the files are that I would need to touch for a custom startup.
But....
I changed /etc/X11/Xsession.d/45xsession and it's still trying to start KDE.
So I'm hunting around for any info on how to get the disk to boot ( by default ) into XFCE. ( and yes I used the "http://xfld.org/Xfld/en/index.html" set.

So my main problem is that since KDE is no longer on the CD, it fails with "can't do kinit". If anyone know how this is done, please tell me where to look, I know the info is out there someware.